Resolve, Record & Distribute

Transparency

See Shared Interests at a Glance

The admin dashboard instantly highlights items that are meaningful to more than one family member. No guesswork, no awkward conversations — just clear data to guide fair discussions.

• Automatic detection of overlapping selections
• See who wants what, across every category
• Personal memories shown alongside selections
• Helps families understand each other's perspectives

Fair Process

Multiple Ways to Decide

When two or more family members want the same item, each person chooses how they'd like to resolve it. The system supports multiple decision-making methods so families can find the approach that feels right.

• Coin Toss: uses a cryptographically fair, verifiable flip with a full audit trail so both sides know the outcome is genuinely random
• Emotional Appeal: lets each person share their personal connection to the item and make a case for why it matters most to them
• Conversation: encourages the family to talk it through together and reach an agreement that everyone feels good about
• Defer: allows a family member to graciously step aside, recognizing that the item holds deeper meaning for someone else

Each person's resolution preference is visible to the admin, making it easy to match the right method to each situation. Every decision is recorded with a permanent audit trail.